C'mon now.. You've wondered it at least once. Shrugged it off.. Googled it...
Here is Zip's guide on how to spot a fake, and how to get the real deal:
You feel like you're always the instigator. It's not that she isn't responsive when you make a move - once you get going, she seems to enjoy it. But she is quiet and hard to read. If it really rocked her, wouldn't she be more enthusiastic?
Letting her drive. She's likely just a little self-conscious. Try a position that puts her more in charge. She knows what pushes her buttons, so take note of how she moves when she has control. This will give you insight into what works for her.
She may be the driver, but how you thrust can make or break it. Try moving in circles rather than up and down. This will keep as much of the base of the D' in contact with her as possible. Short and shallow thrusts, rather than deep and fast, can induce a more intense orgasm.
She prefers oral
She definitely enjoys you going down on her, but her enthusiasm seems to wane when it comes to the main event. You're pretty sure she orgasms during oral, but you'd like her to enjoy sex as much as you do.
Spooning her. A position that focuses on her G-spot may be best, especially if you have just stimulated the clitoris through oral sex. The clitoris is sensitive and prolonged pressure on it can be uncomfortable.
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for tips on this and other positions. She: lies on her side and tilts her pelvis to find the ideal position for G-spot stimulation. He: snuggles up behind and enters her in the spooning position. Together: kiss cheeks, neck or arms and move in sync.
Most of the time, you're certain she has - in fact, she definitely has! But on other occasions, she's just not as into it. She responds far better when there is plenty of time to warm up, and you're usually happy to oblige. However, when you're pushed for time or having a quickie before work, she seems to be faking it...
A toy. Many women find it harder to orgasm under pressure, or in a rush. Spicing things up with a sex toy is not only fun, but also a great way to increase intensity and reach climax that much faster. 'We-Vibe 4' is a couples' massager that enhances sex for both of you simultaneously. She wears it during sex for extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot, and you fit in underneath to share the vibe. The heightened sensation is a guaranteed way to please you both and facilitate a great finale, even under time pressure.
You can't fault her enthusiasm, and you've never encountered anyone willing to shout about it (literally) in the way she does. At first you thought you were 'the man'! But now you're wondering, really? Could there be some over-compensating going on here..?
Watching for the physical signs of orgasm. Some women love making noise, and it is possible she is one of them! Ask yourself if this fits with her personality - it could very likely be real. But keep an eye out as well for the physical signs of orgasm aside from noise. The main ones are increased breathing and heart rate, accompanied by dilated pupils. Her lips should flush, as they swell and redden upon arousal. Vaginal muscle spasms are a big indicator, because she cannot fake or hide this. They will grip your penis, and the tightening feeling you experience will be impossible to miss.
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